If You See Something, Say Something

Many women are of the school of thought that you should wait for a man to walk up to you and say something. Some women even go as far as to say that if a man does not approach you, he is not interested. Needless to say, I am not of that school of thought and flirting is an Olympic sport as far as I’m concerned.

Yesterday while at my party, as the guests were dwindling, I noticed a man with smooth chocolate skin sitting alone. I didn’t walk right up to him, but I definitely made a mental note. A few of us moved to the bar to finish our last drinks and I simply walked up to him and said, “Who are you?” Simple, stunning, and its pulls them in. Fast forward and it turns out that he is a painter. He’s a bit older but he doesn’t look his age so it doesn’t count! We are going to hang out when I get back from Puerto Rico. I told him that I want him to paint me. 🙂

Approaching a man shows that you are confident and it always seems to be a bit intriguing to them. Try it the next time you and your girls go out. Please let me know the results. I would say that I approach 70% of the men that I talk to in a club and it really can make the night much more interesting.